Bruce Feiler, in his book The Secrets of Happy Families, argues that the most important factor for a happy family is the creation of a strong family narrative. Citing a study from Emory University, he shows that children who know their family’s story have greater self-esteem, a stronger sense of control over their lives, and a deeper sense of belonging.

This concept finds a powerful parallel in the parashah where Moshe prepares the people for the Exodus. Rather than speaking about freedom or the Promised Land, Moshe focuses on the future and the transmission of the story to children: “When your children ask you….” In Judaism, education is not merely a means of instruction but the foundation of collective identity. Moshe understands that the true way to ensure the continuity of freedom is to transform history into memory and memory into responsibility.

This approach has made Jews renowned for prioritizing education. However, education is not limited to intellect; it also includes spirituality, an aspect often overlooked today. Lisa Miller, in her book The Spiritual Child, demonstrates that spirituality strengthens resilience, reduces the risk of depression, and fosters emotional well-being in children. Children are naturally inclined toward spirituality and wonder; depriving them of this dimension means taking away an essential source of inner strength.

In Judaism, the educational process is centered on questions, as exemplified by the Mah Nishtanah at the Seder table. Judaism encourages critical thinking and dialogue, avoiding blind adherence to dogma. Moreover, the Shema teaches that love for Hashem must precede teaching children: children learn best when they see enthusiasm and devotion in their parents.

The parashah suggests that the path to freedom is not only a political or historical matter but passes through the bond between parents and children, the transmission of history, the connection with Hashem, and the creation of space for the transcendent. Only emotionally healthy families can build a healthy society. Faith begins in the family, and hope is built in the home.

Note: The above is a synopsis based on the original teaching.